You may have the best technique in the worlds but if in your heart, the
man you are kissing means nothing more than a means to an end for you,
then that is what will come across in your kiss.
Your kiss may be perfect in terms of placement of lips and tongue, but it will have the heart and soul missing from it. Just like someone playing the piano perfectly, but without any feeling at all, because without emotions no experience can be complete in
itself.
Detach yourself from the end result. Kiss him but with no expectations of what you want to happen next or how often you should kiss, as though you are both keeping score. Go with the flow and when your partner senses there is no pressure on him but to enjoy this moment and this kiss, he too will relax and the experience will become even better for both of you.
What's more he will be always willing to kiss you anytime, anywhere because you don't put any kind of pressure on him or have any great expectations, but capture and enjoy the moment for what it is.
Your kiss may be perfect in terms of placement of lips and tongue, but it will have the heart and soul missing from it. Just like someone playing the piano perfectly, but without any feeling at all, because without emotions no experience can be complete in
itself.
Detach yourself from the end result. Kiss him but with no expectations of what you want to happen next or how often you should kiss, as though you are both keeping score. Go with the flow and when your partner senses there is no pressure on him but to enjoy this moment and this kiss, he too will relax and the experience will become even better for both of you.
What's more he will be always willing to kiss you anytime, anywhere because you don't put any kind of pressure on him or have any great expectations, but capture and enjoy the moment for what it is.
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