What Attracts a Man to a Woman?

So you're wondering what attracts a man to a woman? Ever noticed how so many ordinary, nothing really special women have the most fabulous of men hanging on to their every word and gesture. While a lot of good-looking girls, flit from man to man in an effort to get a relationship going.

It isn't difficult to attract a man, anyone can do that ... the trick is to keep him off balanced, hungry for more, always wanting. Mother Nature has presented you with an arsenal of tricks that can lure the man you want and get him to want you.

Now learn to do it in such a way, that you can have the man you want -- for as long as you want him: No getting ditched at the last minute, no losing out to the other woman.

Now you can be the Cleopatra of your life, the Helen of Troy in your sphere of influence and have the man you want, exactly where you want him. No woman can resist a challenge.

And no man can resist a flirt. But what's the point of getting the man you want, if he's going to lose interest and walk away, sooner rather than later?

What attracts a man to a woman? The trick is to lure a man, to seduce him with looks, touches and gestures, to get him wanting ... to keep him unbalanced and hungry for more. Everything you ever wanted to know about flirting, about touching and kissing to seduce and enthrall is in the following pages.

All you have to do is read and follow the tricks, tips and suggestions and practice them on the unsuspecting male you have decided is the Man for you!

So Why Was This Site Created?

There are lots of you that want to know exactly what attracts a man to a woman. Especially when they are so many books and web sites out there, all dedicated to the art of kissing and flirting, that can teach you the mechanics of everything you need to know? But that's just the point.

Would you rather know the nitty-gritty on how a car runs, or would you rather slide behind the wheel and drive away in a smooth rush of power.

Would you rather be mystery and romance, or just a pair of lips?

Be the girl of his dreams or the temporary girl on his arms? In these days of equality most women have forgotten how to be a woman. They have forgotten how to be romantic, how to flirt, how to package their sensuality and wage psychological warfare to spear the man they want.

They are so busy being equal and just like a man, that they have taken away all the fun and excitement of the mating game.

If I were to give you a present that you definitely wanted, but in such a way that there isn't much interest and excitement generated by it, would you like that? How about if I hinted at it, let the anticipation build and then presented you with a beautifully wrapped gift, which you had to delicately unrobe to get to the prize beneath.

Which of the two sounds exciting and mysterious? Which of the two do you want? And which of the two would you want to be?

What every Man Wants
What if I told you that every man secretly dreams, longs and fantasizes about the perfect gorgeous, sexy woman who'll be the one for him?

Smart, well dressed, cool in real life and sexy as hell in bed. Who kisses like a dream and is uninhibited in her desires. In short a woman of great power. What if I was to tell you, that in the battle of the sexes, you have got
your signals mixed up?

The end game isn't to end up alone, but with the man you want. So keep him guessing, blow hot and cold, keep him unbalanced and hungry for more.

What attracts a man to a woman? Kiss like a virgin. Kiss like a bride. Kiss like a Madonna and kiss open mouth and panting hot! Let him know you want him, albeit subtly. And watch the knowing light up his eyes, while you hood your own and act all innocent.

Give yourself permission to be wild and passionate, to let your guard down, to get under his skin and captivate him with play that is exciting and enticing. With kissing that is not mechanical but is the start of love making with a passionate edge.

French Kissing Tips - Learn How to French Kiss

Okay, french kissing is where deep kissing gets exciting. The first thing you should know when learning how to french kiss, is that it isn’t as hard as you think it is. After all almost everyone does it, so enjoy these french kissing tips and watch them work for you.

One thing that you will learn throughout these french kissing tips is that tongues are very sensitive, so as you learn how to french kiss you'll soon find it can be almost as exciting, if not more, than actual sex.

The tongue penetrating the mouth and the swollen lips of the girl, both replicate the sex act. Which is why when the two of you are in sync, just one quick thrust of your tongue between her lips, will almost wipe you both out with the depths of desire and sensation that you will experience.

Preparing for French Kissing

• Make sure you are comfortable especially if this is the first kiss, and if you are just learning how to french kiss, because french kissing can last a wonderful long time (depending on how long you and your partner want to be deep kissing).
• Lean in as though for a normal kiss, with your face tilted, so that your lips angle across each other.
• Ideally both of you should tilt your face a bit to one side, so that it is easy to kiss.
• Your noses should just touch and not connect straight on.
• Part your lips slightly and place a normal kiss on her lips.
• Keep it short and sweet to start with.

Getting Into the Ryhthm of Deep Kissing

• Now draw her closer and get even more comfortable together.
• Increase the pressure on her mouth.
• Now pull back and look into her eyes, to make sure she is still interested.
• Then drop your gaze to her lips again.
• With your tongue trace the outline of her lips.
• Then give her another all encompassing kiss again.
• Next slowly swipe your tongue across her lips where they meet.
• If she is interested and excited, her lips will part automatically (if they aren’t already).
• Slowly slide your tongue a little way into her mouth.
• Don’t push your way in, or be too aggressive.
• Now caress her tongue in a light licking motion.
• You can even suck her tongue gently.
  
  

Warming up your French Kissing
Now that you have touched on french kissing it is a good idea to pull back your tongue and let her follow with her tongue, to explore your mouth. If she is hesitant or shy, you can whisper against her lips softly, ‘Give me your tongue’ to attempt to initiate the deep kissing.

To Continue - More French Kissing Tips

• Explore her mouth (not her throat). Touch the roof of her mouth with your tongue.
• At the same time, continue to caress and rub away her fears and excite her even further by stroking her back, shoulder or arms.
  

French Kissing Tips for Extra Sensation

• Flicker the tips of your tongues together.
• Rotate your tongue with hers in a circular movement.
• Play chase between both your mouths.
• Suck on her tongue, sometimes gently and sometimes hard.
• Gently bite her tongue and then invite her to do the same.
• Carry on for as long as you want, exploring each other’s mouths, all the crevices and corners.
  

French Kissing Tips for what NOT to do

• Don’t be too pushy and aggressive.
• Don’t force your tongue down her throat.
• Don’t wave it roughly round and round in her mouth.
• Don’t let your tongue go limp.
• Don’t bite too hard, or bite at all if she doesn’t like it.
• Stop often to check she is with you every lick of the way.
• Don’t try it the first time you kiss her.

Saliva during French Kissing

Saliva is an all-important topic, because it can totally ruin it for you. So, here are a few french kissing tips to help you on your way:

• Start with a dry mouth, not one that is already sopping wet.
• Keep a tight control over the amount of saliva filling your mouth.
• Try to push it back.
• If you feel there is too much saliva in your mouth, pull away a little and swallow before deep kissing her again.
• Under no condition slobber over her, or let saliva drip into her mouth.
• Go slow until you have got the hang of controlling all the wet stuff.

Breathing while French Kissing Of all the french kissing tips we can offer, learning to breathe during french kissing is one of the more important ones. It is somewhat like learning to swim. Once you know it, you can’t forget it. The most obvious way to breathe is through your nose, so make sure you haven’t mashed it shut against her cheek.

If you desperately need to breathe, drawback a bit to look at her lips and take a few deep breaths. You might even make a little joke about forgetting to breathe, which could come off as cute.. and then you could move in for another kiss, but it you are concerned about being cool them by all means pass on that suggestion..

However, with a thorough review of all the french kissing tips and advice throughout this site, and a little practice you will be able to breathe with your mouth and nose, while kissing your sexy friend and driving him or her totally insane with excitement.

Intense or Relaxed French Kissing
For best results, it is good to vary the way you kiss. Intersperse different styles of french kissing for best results. Sometimes explore her mouth with your tongue, then retreat to allow her tongue the freedom to explore your mouth.

Not only will you be exciting and unpredictable in your french kissing but you will be a far better kisser, with a vast repertoire that will have all the girls begging for more. Go with the occasion: If you have a lot of space and privacy, then make the french kissing intense.

However, if you think you will not be alone for long, then go for a relaxed approach and a flurry of soft, sweet kisses, with maybe a quick tongue kiss and lip lick thrown in for good measure.


French Kissing Tips for Public Effect and Appropriateness

French kissing is not really something you would indulge in front of many older people (unless you were making a statement). That said, if you are with people your age and you and your date feel comfortable, you could share a few relaxed kisses.

However, I personally feel that aggressive and deep french kissing by its very exciting nature, is best reserved for more private occasions. But that again is a matter of choice.

Certainly you should not wait for a good night kiss to start french kissing, you can do it any time you want to – as long as you are comfortable and there is space and privacy.

Before you get into a total lip lock, it is a good idea to get the motor running, with a lot of touching and caressing and deep eye to eye contact. Learning from these french kissing tips should be an exciting and empowering process. Learn how to french kiss well by reading through this entire kissing coaching program. Visit the mens and womens chapters to learn french kissing tips for both guys and girls and more about how to french kiss comfortably and phenomenally.